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Tazel
Tazel
Man, this is depressing. I am in the 7th grade and this is the time when the relationships and all start you know? Well, alot of the people I know have a girlfriend/boyfriend. I don''t. Some things that make it hard is, I''m a geek, not the cutest person in the world, and I am Korean, in the U.S. That kinda gets in the way too. *Sigh*....
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vtwin
vtwin
Stop making threads and start pimping hoes.
MrPoopypants
MrPoopypants
i was a nerd way back when.. but hey your only in 7th grade, does it really matter? as long as you eventually become social by high-school you got nothing to worry about... 5 years from now youll look back laughing

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Well, alot of the people I know have a girlfriend/boyfriend. I don''t.



i think i began getting into pornography at about this age
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Colin Jeanne
Colin Jeanne
quote:
Original post by Tazel
Man, this is depressing. I am in the 7th grade and this is the time when the relationships and all start you know? Well, alot of the people I know have a girlfriend/boyfriend. I don''t. Some things that make it hard is, I''m a geek, not the cutest person in the world, and I am Korean, in the U.S. That kinda gets in the way too. *Sigh*....



Ask yourself: Why do I need to have a girlfriend?



Qui fut tout, et qui ne fut rien
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Brerick
Brerick
dude, your only in seventh grade. don''t worry about it till you get to high school. i am kind of a nerd, but i am well respected. after time, if you are nice and smart, that will win over. it did in my case at least.
Tazel
Tazel
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Original post by Programmer One
Well, at least you don''t have a boyfriend...


Whew, that''s good... I hope to never have one either. Seriously.




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Tazel
Tazel
Think i have a chance with the chicks even if I am you know....Korean?



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nick316
nick316
North Korean??
Tazel
Tazel
Uh no, I have a high probability of not being here if I was...



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Programmer One
Programmer One
quote:
Original post by Tazel
Think i have a chance with the chicks even if I am you know....Korean?



Of course not. Koreans don''t reproduce. You are the only Korean in existance.

*sigh*
elendil67
elendil67
Hehe, I am in the 7th grade too. Basically in 7th grade its more talk than walk. I think that you should check this out. It''s by Paul Graham, who seems to be a LISP-freak, and you will see quite a few threads by bishop_pass talking about him. The article is pretty long in itself, yet it is a really cool article.
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HunterTKilla
HunterTKilla
I tend to disagree a bit with the article (Only read about half though)... I am in highschool, have a respectable average and am doing very well (IMO) at programming... Yet I find making friends and being ''popular'' a very simple thing to do. I have many friends (Though only a few real friends) and a girlfriend... I think that as soon as you become comftorable with who you are (as I have, a ''computer nerd'') you can then go on to becoming popular. Good luck Tazel and I hope everything works out for you... Just one word of caution, don''t give up what you love just to be with the ''in'' crowd...
Colin Jeanne
Colin Jeanne
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Original post by Tazel
Think i have a chance with the chicks even if I am you know....Korean?



If somebody doesn''t like you just because you are Korean then they weren''t worth your time anyway. Besides, I know a girl who is Korean and she''s pretty fun and is very kind on the eyes so there are at least some Koreans who are good

500xI lost track



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Naaga
Naaga
What on Earth does being Korean or not have to do with anything?


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KalvinB
KalvinB
.action puts on his suit

Being North Korean could lead to his GF being arrested for aiding an enemy spy and she could be executed for being a traitor. It could also be an explosive relationship which young kids aren''t ready for yet.

My advice, stop bitching and start talking to girls. Last week I was sitting in my math class quietly as usual before it started and this girl looks at me and goes "when did you get here?" I was confused and this other girl goes "he''s been here for awhile now. I noticed."

On one hand obviously I''m being noticed and on the other I''m apparently invisible. It''s the ever expanding paradox of my existance.

If you really want a girlfriend go find some fat girl. As an added bonus they''re really needy so you can have them as long as you want and they expect to be tossed to the side (mostly because they''re in seventh grade, I mean come on...) when something better comes along so it''s really the best way to take advantage of the situation.

a) having a girlfriend gives you like a +5 hottness bonus
b) -3 points for using +X notation and saying "hottness"
c) hot girls dig sympathetic guys. Just make sure she''s really ugly so they don''t get the impression you''re the pity sig
d) don''t sound too eager to dump her when other girls start noticing you. Pretend you care about her feelings. Chics dig loyal guys.
e) when you make the successful upgrade give some BS sob story about why your previous relationship failed like "we didn''t agree on political issues." It makes your new gf think you''re intelligent and know what you''re looking for.
f) never insult your previous gf''s unless they start saying bad things about you. Then it''s just "she''s crazy" and nothing more.

Of course all this sympathy and intelligence stuff is utter bs but it''s all a stupid game anyway as your age. Girls just want to feel mature and like they''re with an equally mature guy.

You''re probably better off getting bitter early on and writting your own OS instead of caring about girls.

Ben


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KalvinB
KalvinB
Paul Graham is an idiot. That''s why nobody likes him. The fact he spent so much time bitching and ignorantly labeling people just kinda solidifies why people did not and probably still don''t like him.

btw, that made it on to Slashdot awhile back where he was sufficiently ripped into for being an elitist jackass. Apparently he''s failed to consider that nobody liked him because of who he was as a person.

Nerds going on about how smart they are is like a jock going on about how big his cup is or how much he can lift. Nobody really cares to hear about it. It''s a sign of being self centered and elitist and people don''t like those people.

Ben


IcarusIndie.com
Star2
Star2
I cant agree with vtwin more,

Dude, lemme tell u.
7th and 8th grade is when the pussy comes, in high school its really hard to get pussy. Or maybe I just gotten rosty, ugh...
But the girls are more mature and they dont JUST wuna sleep with u (well some do, and they have a name: hoe), and if u find someone to fuck with in highschool, they probably got more STDs than there IS. Its really hard to find a CLEAN girl and just do a one-night-stand, u gotta go through a relationship and shit that takes a while before u get some. But in 7th and 8th grade, thats where u JUST fuck, u experiment and most girls are virgins.
The Reindeer Effect
The Reindeer Effect
Middle school was weird for me, because I spent a few years on the private school circuit.

I had a girlfriend in 7th grade, but private school was so sheltered that it really was nothing more than the two of us avoiding eachother because we were each too nervous.

However, Star2 IS telling the absolute truth. My friend got his first bj in 6th grade, and by 8th he scored. Girls in middle school are yearning to become "developed" and grow into teenager/highschool types. If you can cut through the emotional "i''m nervous" bullshit, there are wonders of oppurtunities waiting around every corner. I was too much of a pussy to put out a decent effort, and looking back on it I see my flaws (there was a girl who literally started kissing me in class, she was hot, and I stood there like some sort of queer).

So basically, there is one common theme. Don''t be a pussy about stuff. If there is a girl you like (and you have a reasonable chance), go for it.

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