3dslaoder....

hello...very one...=) im doing a project titled "virtual baby", how can i display the virtual baby that i created using 3dsMax in java?? i know it needed some loader to load the virtual baby to java, but i don''t know how to use those loaders that i downloaded from the internet (eg. Starfire, 3dsloader). Any simple loader for beginner to use? since im new in java...=) and one more...which one the better preferable?? animate the virtual baby in 3dsmax and put it to jave or load the virtual baby model to java and animate in java?? Thanks alot....for who spend their time answering my question...is very urgent..i only got 2 weeks remain to finish this project... Very thank you!!