[java] Connect 3Ds Max with Java Platform

Woooow!

Thats almost impossible to answer.

I guess you have not too much programming experience, right !?

The answers might be:
-Write your own engine (incredible amount of work and serious experience needed)
You might use LWJGL or jogl OpenGL bindings. You would need to write all datastructures etc. by yourself.

-Use http://www.jmonkeyengine.com/home/ This would save you a lot of work.
But nevertheless you need to be decent a programming.

Last but not least, what I would suggest you is:
Try something different like this:
http://unity3d.com/

This seems to be most promising in this case.

http://www.jmonkeyengine.com
jMonkeyEngine 2 and 3 support 3dsMax model importing through the OgreXML format. You can check the tutorials and visit the forums to see how to do it.