Hey guys

could any one tell me the names of best books to start and

what is the best way to be a game dev

If you want to learn programming on your own, just to play around with making games or to become a hobbyist or amateur game developer, you should go on the For Beginners forum and read that forum's FAQs.
If your goal is to become a professional developer at a game company, read this forum's FAQs. Link is above.